{"id":239,"date":"2019-02-19T15:09:34","date_gmt":"2019-02-19T15:09:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/?p=239"},"modified":"2019-03-16T15:12:20","modified_gmt":"2019-03-16T15:12:20","slug":"a-5-step-plan-for-exploring-other-culture","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/a-5-step-plan-for-exploring-other-culture\/","title":{"rendered":"A 5-step plan for exploring other culture"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When I was 11 years old, my world was turned upside down. Up until that time, I had spent most of my life in Chile &#8211; a place where my family and I were foreigners, but we still called home. &nbsp;I embraced the environment that surrounded me and celebrated the same traditions as my friends. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Everything changed in 2009 when my family decided to move to the Philippines.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I felt completely lost. Everything, from the language to the food, was different. It was an immense cultural shock that left me crying for some normality. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What made things even more difficult, however, was that the shock came from various cultures, not just the Filipino one.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> My father was a professor at an international institution, where than 50 countries were represented. Many families &#8211; &#8211; just like mine &#8212; had been living in their home countries, emerged in their cultures. They had just moved to a new environment, which became a melting pot. &nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For a long time, it was a struggle. Yet, as time progressed, I &nbsp;actually learned to appreciate the various cultures around me as much as my own. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are five steps that helped me do so. And I hope they help you, too. <\/span><\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #000080;\"><b>I knew my &nbsp;own culture<\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This may sound silly, or even counterproductive (why am I looking at my culture when I am trying to learn about a different one?). But getting to know one\u2019s own culture is the first crucial step to take when learning to appreciate others. We may not always realize it, but the culture in which we are raised has helped shape the way we view the world. Our opinions, assumptions and even the way we think is somehow shaped by the customs we follow. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are certain things we may scorn because our own culture has taught us to do so. For example, why was I disgusted when someone would slurp on their soup? Because in <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">my<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> culture that is impolite to do. But just because it is rude in my culture does it actually make it wrong? &nbsp;If we understand from where that judgment originates, then we open ourselves to see things from a different perspective. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ask yourself: <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How has my worldview been affected by my culture? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What part of my culture is holding me back from understanding someone else\u2019s?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quote: <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cYour culture is your limit; if you can\u2019t go beyond it you will remain as a frog of your little lake.\u201d \u2013 Mehmet Murat Ildan<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"metaslider-id-241\" style=\"max-width: 2000px;\" class=\"ml-slider-3-20-0 metaslider metaslider-flex metaslider-241 ml-slider\">\n    <div id=\"metaslider_container_241\">\n        <div id=\"metaslider_241\">\n            <ul aria-live=\"polite\" class=\"slides\">\n                <li style=\"display: block; width: 100%;\" class=\"slide-266 ms-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/1-1920x959.jpg\" height=\"1000\" width=\"2000\" alt=\"\" class=\"slider-241 slide-266\" title=\"1\" \/><\/li>\n                <li style=\"display: none; width: 100%;\" class=\"slide-268 ms-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/3-1920x959.jpg\" height=\"1000\" width=\"2000\" alt=\"\" class=\"slider-241 slide-268\" title=\"3\" \/><\/li>\n                <li style=\"display: none; width: 100%;\" class=\"slide-290 ms-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/20-1920x959.jpg\" height=\"1000\" width=\"2000\" alt=\"\" class=\"slider-241 slide-290\" title=\"20\" \/><\/li>\n            <\/ul>\n        <\/div>\n        \n    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #ff99cc;\"><b>I was open to other cultures<\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the things that bothered me in the Philippines was having to take off my shoes whenever I went to a friend\u2019s house. What if their floor was dirty? What if my feet got cold? What was the point of all this fuss? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To me it was ridiculous. Then I learned that in many Asian cultures home is viewed as one\u2019s private space and traditionally history most things were done on the floor (Yes, even eating and sleeping). &nbsp;So, the fact that someone is inviting you to their personal space, means they are opening themselves to you. Taking off your shoes means that you appreciate and respect that act of kindness. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If we do not try to learn about someone\u2019s culture, then we will miss the chance of seeing the beauty behind each tradition. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ask yourself: What can someone\u2019s culture teach me about the person? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How will understanding their culture help me see the beauty in their traditions?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quote: <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #ffcc99;\"><i>\u201cWhen you learn something from people, or from a culture, you accept it as a gift and it is your lifelong commitment to preserve it and build on it\u201d \u2013 Yoyo Ma<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<div id=\"metaslider-id-270\" style=\"max-width: 2000px;\" class=\"ml-slider-3-20-0 metaslider metaslider-flex metaslider-270 ml-slider\">\n    <div id=\"metaslider_container_270\">\n        <div id=\"metaslider_270\">\n            <ul aria-live=\"polite\" class=\"slides\">\n                <li style=\"display: block; width: 100%;\" class=\"slide-286 ms-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/21-1920x959.jpg\" height=\"1000\" width=\"2000\" alt=\"\" class=\"slider-270 slide-286\" title=\"21\" \/><\/li>\n                <li style=\"display: none; width: 100%;\" class=\"slide-287 ms-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/22-1920x959.jpg\" height=\"1000\" width=\"2000\" alt=\"\" class=\"slider-270 slide-287\" title=\"22\" \/><\/li>\n                <li style=\"display: none; width: 100%;\" class=\"slide-288 ms-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/23-1920x959.jpg\" height=\"1000\" width=\"2000\" alt=\"\" class=\"slider-270 slide-288\" title=\"23\" \/><\/li>\n            <\/ul>\n        <\/div>\n        \n    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #99cc00;\"><b>I tried new things<\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Growing up, I was a picky eater. That is why my first potluck in the Philippines consisted of me wrinkling my nose as I scanned all the dishes I knew I was not going to eat. This was the first time I had seen food from places such Thailand, Kenya or China. The food looked weird; it looked different. Even with the variety of choices, I ended up having what my mom had brought. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, imagine my surprise when I tried all those different foods and found out how delicious they actually were. Soon enough, dumplings, pancit, tkeok-bokki, curry and chapatti became my favorite meals. But even more importantly, I became a fan of trying new cuisine.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of my personal and favorite theories is that to truly know a country\u2019s culture you have to try their street food. Yet, this was something I would have never discovered if I had not allowed myself to try. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ask yourself: What could I be missing because I am not trying? What choices could I make to change that? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quote: <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/i><span style=\"color: #339966;\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cNever be afraid of trying something new, because life gets boring when you stay within the limits of what you already know\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/span><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"metaslider-id-274\" style=\"max-width: 2000px;\" class=\"ml-slider-3-20-0 metaslider metaslider-flex metaslider-274 ml-slider\">\n    <div id=\"metaslider_container_274\">\n        <div id=\"metaslider_274\">\n            <ul aria-live=\"polite\" class=\"slides\">\n                <li style=\"display: block; width: 100%;\" class=\"slide-275 ms-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/8-1920x959.jpg\" height=\"1000\" width=\"2000\" alt=\"\" class=\"slider-274 slide-275\" title=\"8\" \/><\/li>\n                <li style=\"display: none; width: 100%;\" class=\"slide-276 ms-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/10-1920x959.jpg\" height=\"1000\" width=\"2000\" alt=\"\" class=\"slider-274 slide-276\" title=\"10\" \/><\/li>\n                <li style=\"display: none; width: 100%;\" class=\"slide-277 ms-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/11-1920x959.jpg\" height=\"1000\" width=\"2000\" alt=\"\" class=\"slider-274 slide-277\" title=\"11\" \/><\/li>\n            <\/ul>\n        <\/div>\n        \n    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><b>I respected other traditions<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While I tried to learn and appreciate other cultures, there were certain things that I could not fully comprehend. I learned that we are all unique and hold various viewpoints.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Disagreements are bound to occur. However, it is important to realize that though we may different times, it does not give us the right to disrespect other people or their cultures. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No culture is superior to another. Despite what ethnocentrism tries to teach, all cultures hold the same value and are special in their own ways. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ask yourself: Do I want others to respect me and my culture? Am I showing that kind of respect to those who are different from me?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quote:<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff9900;\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cIt is not our differences that divide us. It is our inability to recognize, accept, and celebrate those differences.\u201d &nbsp;&#8211; Audre Lorde<\/span><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"metaslider-id-278\" style=\"max-width: 2000px;\" class=\"ml-slider-3-20-0 metaslider metaslider-flex metaslider-278 ml-slider\">\n    <div id=\"metaslider_container_278\">\n        <div id=\"metaslider_278\">\n            <ul aria-live=\"polite\" class=\"slides\">\n                <li style=\"display: block; width: 100%;\" class=\"slide-279 ms-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/12-1920x959.jpg\" height=\"1000\" width=\"2000\" alt=\"\" class=\"slider-278 slide-279\" title=\"12\" \/><\/li>\n                <li style=\"display: none; width: 100%;\" class=\"slide-280 ms-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/15-1920x959.jpg\" height=\"1000\" width=\"2000\" alt=\"\" class=\"slider-278 slide-280\" title=\"15\" \/><\/li>\n                <li style=\"display: none; width: 100%;\" class=\"slide-281 ms-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/14-1920x959.jpg\" height=\"1000\" width=\"2000\" alt=\"\" class=\"slider-278 slide-281\" title=\"14\" \/><\/li>\n            <\/ul>\n        <\/div>\n        \n    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #333300;\"><strong>I built relationships<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the cultures I had the hardest time relating to was the Korean culture. Though I had tried my best to enjoy the traditions, &nbsp;it just seemed like I could never quite get there. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A majority of my classmates were Koreans, and whenever I was around them I felt lost and out of place. I respected them, but I still was unable to appreciate their traditions like I appreciated others. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then during my freshman year of high school, I became friends with a girl named Deborah. I did not know it then, but she would become one of my dearest friends. Talking to her did not only give me the chance to get to know her as a person but also a chance to see the Korean culture in a new light. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ask yourself: What have I learned from the friends I already have? How can I expand my circle of friends? <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quote: <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/i><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><strong>\u201cEvery person is a new door to a different world.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"metaslider-id-282\" style=\"max-width: 2000px;\" class=\"ml-slider-3-20-0 metaslider metaslider-flex metaslider-282 ml-slider\">\n    <div id=\"metaslider_container_282\">\n        <div id=\"metaslider_282\">\n            <ul aria-live=\"polite\" class=\"slides\">\n                <li style=\"display: block; width: 100%;\" class=\"slide-283 ms-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/16-1920x959.jpg\" height=\"1000\" width=\"2000\" alt=\"\" class=\"slider-282 slide-283\" title=\"16\" \/><\/li>\n                <li style=\"display: none; width: 100%;\" class=\"slide-284 ms-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/17-1920x959.jpg\" height=\"1000\" width=\"2000\" alt=\"\" class=\"slider-282 slide-284\" title=\"17\" \/><\/li>\n                <li style=\"display: none; width: 100%;\" class=\"slide-285 ms-image\"><img src=\"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/18-1920x959.jpg\" height=\"1000\" width=\"2000\" alt=\"\" class=\"slider-282 slide-285\" title=\"18\" \/><\/li>\n            <\/ul>\n        <\/div>\n        \n    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; When I was 11 years old, my world was turned upside down. Up until that time, I had spent most of my life in Chile &#8211; a place where my family and I were foreigners, but we still called home. &nbsp;I embraced the environment that surrounded me and celebrated the same traditions as my &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/a-5-step-plan-for-exploring-other-culture\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;A 5-step plan for exploring other culture&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":292,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/239"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=239"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/239\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":319,"href":"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/239\/revisions\/319"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/292"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=239"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=239"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/investigating-diversity.jour342.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=239"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}